A spiritual soul tie is the joining or knitting together of two people with the same purpose or heart. There are good soul ties, such as marriage, business partners, family, or good friends. There are also negative or ungodly soul ties, in a relationship that brings you into bondage, robs you of your will or is harmful.
Many people are involved with unhealthy relationships or have souls (mind and emotions) ties to past relationships hurts and wounds. The good new is, if you realized you are in bondage, you can be set free! The specific term soul tie is not specifically in the Bible.
It is, however, it is Christianize used to explain when a person in under the control or influence of another. There are also other terms Christians use that are not be found in scripture such as:
- Altar Call
- Sinner’s prayer
- Sunday School
- Accept Jesus as personal Savior
Soul Tie and your Children
All of us have seen spiritual soul ties in operation, whether you knew what is was called or not. You may have experienced your child being involved with someone who was a destructive influence in their lives. This is a form of emotional, spiritual, physical, social or financial bondage.
Often no matter how you try to explain how that person is not good for them, they will not listen. Now matter how much you warn, they can not see they are being negatively changed by their association with this person or group.
2 Corinthians 6:14 ESV – Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
There can be unhealthy relationships with Pastors/Priests and members. Bosses and employees, parents and children, etc. Have you seen an abusive relationship where the abused person wants to get out, but won’t leave, or keeps returning to their abuser. These are signs of an ungodly soul tie that will destroy lives if they are not set free.
These are signs of an ungodly soul tie that will destroy lives if they are not set free. The spirit of God will warn you, there is danger ahead. If you listen you will be spared heartache.
All of us have seen soul ties in operation, whether you knew what is was called or not. You may have experienced your child who is spending time How to get Free from Ungodly Soul Ties
A Soul Ties in Relationships
We all have seen or heard of a woman dating or married to a man who is dominating and controlling. He does not want her to have friends, and try to isolate her from her family or support systems. I read of a man that locked his wife and children in the house took the phone and nailed all the windows shut, so she couldn’t leave.
Everyone wondered, why didn’t she try to get help when he left the home? The answer is so often the same, “I can’t leave him. I love him or I’m afraid he will kill me.” This is a perfect example of a person whose mind spirit and soul have been taken over by another. This is an ungodly soul tie.
Godly Ties: A covenant is a legal and binding agreement or contract. A marriage is a union or covenant between a man and a woman. They are said to be, “joined together in wedlock.” The marriage is consummated through physical joining and is the physical manifestation of the spiritual principal.
This covenant symbolizes, two becoming one flesh. Intimate relations spiritually binds two people together, whether you are married or single. This joining with another person establishes a soul tie” A marital soul tie is good and acceptable to God, while adultery or fornication is not.
Matthew 19:5 – And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh? KJV
When your have several partners, you soul is tied to each individual, whether you are in love with them or not. A soul tie that is created by a relationship that is not legal or ordained by marriage also creates a soul tie with the person forever, unless the sin if renounce, and there is a separation from that person.
You are the Temple of the Holy Spirit
Let’s look at what the Apostle Paul taught about keeping our vessels as sacred before God. This is also why men and women who engage in prostitution become addicted or bound in their spirits to that lifestyle. Your body is either a gateway to the Holy Spirit, or to evil spirits. There is, however, healing and deliverance through the blood of Jesus Christ.
I Corinthians 6:15 – Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. 16. Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For, as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.
Please don’t get thrown by the word prostitute. It is the symbol of any negative influence that takes place because of illicit relations.
When you see as man or women, who are unable to commit to one person, this is often caused by a soul tie with past lovers that have not been broken. Once the relationship has ended, it is so painful and many times extremely difficult to establish a close relationship with another person. A part of you remains joined with your previous lover, causing your emotions to become fragmented. 1 Corinthians 6:16 KJV
I will continue on this subject in my next post, but until then:
If you feel you are still tied to your past relationships, pray this prayer:
A Prayer to break a Soul Tie from Relationships: Father, in the name of Jesus Christ, I ask that you forgive me for fornicating (adultery). I have been with many people and I want to be free from my past. Father, I break every ungodly soul tie and I command the fragmented parts of my soul to return to me, and I send back the parts of the souls of the people I was involved with that they might be free also. Father heal me and restore me, spiritually, emotionally and physically, and send the person that you have for me to be my husband (wife). In Jesus name.